There’s no arguing over the great etiquette women have in public toilets and one woman just proved it again.
The woman named Agnes shared her sweet story on social media about a recent encounter in a public washroom.
In her tweet,
she claimed that she was occupying one of the bathroom stalls when another
woman came in and started crying in the nearby stall.
Feeling the urge to help, Agnes decided to check and see whether
the sobbing woman was ok or needed a crying shoulder
The stranger revealed that her mum had passed on and she really missed her.
In her attempt to cheer up the woman, Agnes reveals she made a
very touching gesture – and read her a poem through the cubicle wall.
The poem was by Kim Addonizio and
is called To the Woman Crying Uncontrollably in the Next Stall.
It reads:
If
you ever woke in your dress at 4am ever
closed
your legs to a man you loved opened
them
for one you didn’t moved against
a
pillow in the dark stood miserably on a beach
seaweed
clinging to your ankles paid
good
money for a bad haircut backed away
from
a mirror that wanted to kill you bled
into
the back seat for lack of a tampon
if
you swam across a river under rain sang
using
a dildo for a microphone stayed up
to
watch the moon eat the sun entire
ripped
out the stitches in your heart
because
why not if you think nothing &
no
one can / listen I love you joy is coming.
As with every good and honest gesture, the story didn’t end
there.
Agnes continues:
“When she came out she asked for my name and mobile number and because
it’s very difficult to say no to a woman crying about the death of her mother,
I gave them to her.”
The woman, whose name is Lola, then sent her a lovely message thanking her for the kind and comforting words.
“I will
never forget your voice through the closed door,” she wrote. “Thank
you.”
“So I
suppose the lesson here is always force unsolicited poetry on crying
strangers,” jokes Agnes.
She added:
“Anyway, this warmed me during a tricky week. Also it’s a bloody great
poem and it’s rare to get such a perfect opportunity to loudly speak it through
a loo door and over the sound of the weeing and weeping of a sad
stranger.”
Her thread quickly went viral, with over 8,000 likes and 1,700 retweets.
Users applauded
her warm gesture with one person commenting: “You did a good thing.”
Another replied: “That is just lovely. Grief is a b******
whether it’s brand new or years old. This made it slightly less s*** for a
while.”